Yes, the same things that worked on old girlfriends left my wife cold (mainly because she is so ticklish). You have to ask and then ask again what turns her on. She might now know exactly or she may feel too embarassed to tell you. It took awhile before I convinced my wife that I actually enjoy giving oral sex to her. She used to orgasm with it and then went a long time without. It was mainly a mental block as she thought that I couldn't possibly enjoy it. Now she is back to getting off almost every time.
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