Along with the great advice about being safe, sane and consensual:
Here is the one thing not mentioned yet...USE various types of gloves(you stated you love using your hands) loofah glove, rubber ones, those with the little knobs on them, surgical or food service ones, leather ones( and if they have a fur liner, turn them inside out, knit ones etc... also use different types of pressure, don't just use full force, slow and soft and use a build up.
If you have seen any of my post in exhibition, subby is very pleased with my technique, pressure use and the final results
GOOD LUCK
