just wanted to let you know you are not alone in this...
my kids are 10, 9, and 3... over the years we've gone from having sex daily (like when we were honeymooners)... to hardly at all...
part of it is stress... like other's have talked about... part of it for me were hormonal shifts due to my age, changing birth control, post pregnancy, etc. etc.
bottom line here is while sex is an important aspect of intimacy... it is not the only way in which to achieve it...
when we were really in the "few and far between" times... i worked on finding other ways to be intimate with Willow and show him how much i still loved and desired him...
hang in there... these are growing pains that many of us moms go through...
(hug)
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