ok - well as I said before:
if she has a "Rob" and if she's banging other guys when drunk then she's got a real problem and you may have/get one to whenever you'de have to go on a business trip to Europe 
Maybe you're special, maybe Rob is a fool - and she may be "all that" and who knows she may prove to be a fantastic mate, all I'm saying is that you'de beter watch out with this girl - I think that "getting a commitment" will have to be explict on her side if you want to follow this trough - since she
just said that she would understand if I didn't want to see her again - it doesn't sound like a person who really is mad about you, and so it's up to you to decide if you want to bet on it or not, the least one could say is that she's not a "sure thing"
