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To give an intro, in the past 6 years, I've probably been met with rejection 25-30 times (I'm decently open and forward). I had a rare "accident" (as it's been called) and dated a girl for 9 months last year.
Plan9, I guess I'm still wondering about the meeting people phase though. I usually spend a lot of time hanging out with friends, going to classes, and participating in several organizations.
My friends are great, but there's not often new people. In the rare case that there are new people at a get-together (which I usually host), it's somewhat awkward to talk to them in a room full of close friends.
As for organizations, student government usually seems to be filled with good-looking girls, but they're usually stuck-up and a limited number that are available (though that hasn't stopped me from trying). Another group is a small political organizations with very few girls and very few new people. The radio station where I work seems to bring out skanky/ugly chicks. I guess my best bet is a group of 50-60 that fluctuates a bit.
As for class, there are only so many girls that you can really meet and want to ask out in a semester. I usually go into each semester fairly confident and come out the other side with 3-4 rejections. Do you have any special tips for meeting girls in classes? It's a bit awkward if you're rejected and have to see them every other day for the next few months.
Finally, what are your opinions on "Swingers" and "Roger Dodger"?
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