I did read Plan9's topic, and as self defeating and as ironic as this may sound, I guess I would rather just be myself and make someone like me than use a whole plan or a whole book of tactics. A lot of people say confidence is a big thing and if you dont really like yourself no one else will,,, I guess its just easier in theory than practise, you cant just decide you will be confident, or at least I have never been able to - but thanks for the tips everyone, maybe I'll work out how to change the way I am, I hope so.
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
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hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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