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bad sign one: she dogged her boyfriend out to be with you. even if you were on the upside of that sitch, it is a sucky thing to do to someone... and she'll do it again, and it will be you the next time.
bad sign two: her life was so whacked that she was willing to bail it completely and move into yours on short notice. even worse, you had to pay for the ticket.
bad sign three: she has schizo-booze issues. generally, those fall under the low self-esteem category - that category would also explain her affection hostage holding practices. has she got a history of sexual abuse?
she sounds like a leechy headgamer who doesn't know her own head yet. you sound like someone who has their shit more or less together. you deserve someone who has got their mental house in order, and there are plenty of those fish in the sea. most of them carry their own weight, too.
don't give her any ultimatums, they never work. go clean, break clean, be firm and be cool. i hope that ticket wasn't one way.
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