At that age, she could still be brainwashed by her upbringing. You never know what her parents or others filled her head with when she was growing up. That combined with a bad sexual experience could make it difficult for her to work through it. Sometimes these things work themselves out quickly and sometimes not. My wife was a virgin on the day of our wedding and had tons of misinformation about sex put in her head by her mom (who didn't like sex at all). The wedding night and really the first few months weren't really great for us in that department. It has literally taken years to get her completely comfortable with sex, but now that she is, it is fantastic.
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