With my fiance (that has such a nice ring to it!) so far away, I know how you feel. I cried -- did I say cry? No, I bawled the day he left to go home. We talk on the phone once or twice every day. We miss each other terribly. I told him, though, that what keeps me going is knowing that once 5 months is over, we have the rest of our lives together.
Patience, communication, and belief in what you have can really help. I know it is easier said then done, no matter how good you feel about yourself; but you can do this!
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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