| IMHO:Most important thing: BE FUCKING INTERESTING.  If you're a good looking dummy, you'll have some success, but not as much as an average-looking interesting person.  Before arguing with me on this one, who got more-- Eddie Vedder or one of the Backstreet Boys?  Another way to say the same thing: Interesting people are *much* more likely to want to hook up with other interesting people.  Who would you rather have?
 
 Bob
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