I am stuck as the sensitive type. I know this and I am making slow progress towards being a balance between the two. The only problem is that while I am the "sensitive guy", I am the intellectual whore (yes, its true, girls use us like that). I realised this recently because girls talk to me about stuff that their boyfriends or other guys won't. In me they get a sensitive guy then they run back to their alpha or self actualized guy.
On the plus side, I'll have an advantage later on because I'll know the sensitive side of women much better due to my time as an intellectual whore.
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