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Originally posted by wilbjammin
I was glad that I kept some past e-mails from girlfriends and interests I had because when I looked back through them after taking plenty of time to get over it. I learned a lot about what I had been doing wrong, and what was wrong with the relationship and the person I was with. Keep them not for nostalgic reasons, but for self-edification and growth reasons.
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agreed. i save a lot of IM conversations and such as well. and reading through them, especially the "bad" ones, really puts to light the kind of guys i was attracted to and what i shouldn't go for again. and what i should be careful to avoid next time. there's a lot of things that you could reread and think about that you didn't think at the time of the relationship because you were 'blind' to it for whatever reason.