So the only should is that you "should" make up your own mind!
Maybe it is better to ask, what is your opinion or what do you think, when seeking other's input? I agree, that input can help one clarify his/her own thoughts.
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It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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