I think getting another view other than your own can be helpful. Obviously no one here is going to read on reply to their post and go do exactly as the person says. However, by reading some posts it can force the original poster to be more open minded, see other points, or reaffirm their thoughts.
I do not think that the "should" posts are seeking direct advice, merely gathering opinions/clearing their conscience.
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