Quints: you haven't been exclusive to one girl....you've been blinded to all the others! There is a difference, I assure you....
I agree with lurkette (as I usually wind up doing) that you need to get out there and live a little. Don't worry about dating - that'll happen if and when things are right - but be more interested in meeting as many new people as possible.
This is a trait which, once learned, will help you immeasurably once you hit college. By building the largest possible group of friends and acquaintances, you're much more likely to meet a girl that you'll have a good bit of stuff in common with, and just wait and see how things go from there!
But as for the one you've been fixated on for all these years? Let her slip on by.
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