If you want to stay with her, stay.
I was in a similar relationship with a guy. Not exactly the same, mind you, but it was definitely a teeter-totter between him wanting a relationship and him not wanting a relationship. I stuck it through. It was painful, and both of us ended up hurt. But we're together now, and I'm happier than I've ever been in a relationship. You've gotta decide for yourself. Talk to her.
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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
.... absence makes me miss him more...
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