I kinda had a similar situation cept I wasn't with the gal as nearly as long as you...in a way it seems like you two are just 'friends with benefits' for the time being, since you said you aren't together anymore and all but still do things. Honestly, I think you're better off just stopping it alltogether....as i said b4 the same kind of thing happened to me and my gf at the time said things 'had changed' out of the blue and we broke up but we were still very flirty (which is still beyond me) and we still kissed etc and yet she didnt really have any feelings for me but we still in a way were together as yourself and your girl. It ended up kickin me in the ass and now i just left her alltogether and god is life better :-D i think you should tell her straight up for an explanation or you're done with her bc you're not gettin anywhere buddy, youre wanting to go on and on and get more serious and YOU CANT shes playin you for a fool
