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Why can't she commit? What is she afraid of?
She's holding out on you, she's not telling you everything. Don't hold out and try to get her to commit if she's not willing to commit and gives you NO reason why she can't. It is a terrible waste. How is it mature to suddenly say "oh, I don't know... it changed, I tell you what, let's kiss and I'm going to try to move on to something else." Have her cake and eat it too. You deserve a real explanation, and without it there is nothing left for you to hold on to. I would call her out on it, if I were you.
This is actually a pretty typical thing that I've seen girls go through before their transition into "real life." They're looking for something, they don't even know what it is, but it has something to do with this ideal of the future that they've formed. I wonder how much career choices and image and money matter to her. There are questions to be asked, and you probably know better than I what those are.
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Innominate.
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