What your saying is weird...unless you have IE some how set to automatically download the.torrent files....The way its worked for every single bittorrent client I have used....8 different ones so far...the .torrent files are automatically opened and the bittorrent client then opens a window and asks were you would like to save the .avi (or whatever) file. Usually the only way to get the .torrent file is a right click save as....so I really dont know..
I will pitch a client though....its ABC (Yet Anouther Bittorrent Client)
http://pingpong-abc.sourceforge.net/
Check it out...you can have multiple d/l in one window...schedule the d/l and if the computer crashes or what ever you dont need to find the .torrent file again..just open the client and it automatically starts the d/ls again