....man... this is harder than I thought
well... I shall find out in a few days what the deal is.... I definitly agree with both sides of the party... It could go both ways, but i want to trust my instincts...
I talked to my mom about what i should do, (she is the financial manager in the company, so I dont want to fuck up her CAREER) and she said i should take the girl out, and stay friends with her, and take things VERY slow..... being that she is young (18) its something i should take my time with, and let happen naturally and NOT hastily...
so i think i may just go with that, I will say though that this girl is VERY into me... so I really do need to be careful because its not my job im worried about (im turning 22 in march and im still going to school for my engineering degree), I can always find another job, but its my mom's job that I dont want to fuck up... that would destroy me...
In conclusion, i think i will talk to the dad, when the time is right, and ask permission, and explain to him my intentions (to be friends) and take it from there... that way there is no pressure... and its only "friendly"....
so... i will keep you posted.... I know what i gotta do... whats crazy though is that this isnt even half of my problems.... I still have my ex involved in my life (i still see her, im friends with her and we are still intimate) and i have this other girl that is interested in me... so I really need to take things slow and just let things fall into place...
Plus i dont know what the future will bring... but like you said Plan9... life is short and I dont want any regrets in life... thats why i need to take chances sometimes...