| Well, I jumped in this thread pretty late.  I like your views Plan9, really breaking down the games people play into little pieces that make sense.  Anyways, question for ya:  I'm currently in college, and live in a dorm.  I am the outgoing type, so I know everybody on the floor.  As you could guess, there are a few smokin' hotties, but they all have long time boyfriends, so i've settled on becoming friends with them.  This works out better than expected, because I can meet other girls, and just when they get interested, I go and just start talking and laughing with these gorgeous girls, none the wiser.  Do you think they would get angry if I asked them to come out with me in order to hook up with other girls?  There are a few girls I know that I do this with on a regular basis, but I've known them much longer than a few months.  What are good guidelines to follow when you have to choose between friends and your own interests? |