Well, I jumped in this thread pretty late. I like your views Plan9, really breaking down the games people play into little pieces that make sense. Anyways, question for ya: I'm currently in college, and live in a dorm. I am the outgoing type, so I know everybody on the floor. As you could guess, there are a few smokin' hotties, but they all have long time boyfriends, so i've settled on becoming friends with them. This works out better than expected, because I can meet other girls, and just when they get interested, I go and just start talking and laughing with these gorgeous girls, none the wiser. Do you think they would get angry if I asked them to come out with me in order to hook up with other girls? There are a few girls I know that I do this with on a regular basis, but I've known them much longer than a few months. What are good guidelines to follow when you have to choose between friends and your own interests?
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