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You can not go back to how things use to be as time changes all things. However, I do think communication could help. (We hear this a lot, don't we?) At some time that is not heated or threatening, let your fiance know that you miss the affection and compliments. Let him know that you get turned on by these and that you need and desire them. Then make sure to model for him what you want of him. Compliment him frequently. Be affectionate. And responded favorably when he does praise you (don't, in other words, say something like, "well, it's about time" or "too little too late." Rather enjoy what effort he puts forth and reward it!) Positive can go much further than negative.
Good luck!
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