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First of all, who ever said gifts should be pratical? Gifts, imho, are about what is fun, personal, and rarely pratical. I can buy the pratical stuff on my own.
Second, I would have a conversation with him regarding the "rules" for gift giving and receiving in the future. Share that you were very hurt by his lack of enthusiasm over your heartfelt gift and that you don't want that to happen again.
Third, if he continues to be insensitive, know that it won't change in the future and decide if this is something you can live with or not.
Fourth, CRY -- it is natural and healing! You sound like a warm and caring woman. You did not deserve this treatment and it is okay to feel the hurt.
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