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I was in a situation almost exactly the same as yours a few years ago. I was in love with my best friend, who was a girl. Same thing, she knew how I felt but did not have the same feelings for me. I had been obsessed with her for more than a full year, during the course of which I had been with 2 other girls, yet I still only thought about her. Things got weird to the point where we just didnt talk anymore or hang out at all.
It is strange though how some things work out. After about almost a full year of not speaking to one another we just sort of started talking again and now we hang out all the time. In fact, we're better friends now than we've ever been. And although I still find her attractive, I don't feel the need to be anything more than just friends.
I don't know if there is anything you can do besides let time go and see what happens. Perhaps it was the break that allowed us to eventually get back togehter. Maybe that's all you really need. Good luck :-)
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