My wife and I touch all the time, going on 15 years now. Even when we're sitting on the couch watching TV, I'll look at her for a moment, remember how I feel about her, and touch her. It just goes like that. When we're out together, we hold hands constantly. And we're never in bed together without spooning or holding each other face to face.
There are folks who don't do this, but I think they're missing out. I am not a hugger or toucher outside my marriage; but inside it, it feels like the most natural thing in the world to touch and touch again, come up behind her and run my hand down her hair, hold hands, make silly noises. Hell, you didn't even _touch_ on silly noises, a whole 'nother world of intimacy.
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