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When you find someone that you can spoon with all through the night and sleep soundly, then don't let that go! I'm addicted.
Touching is a very natural normal part of human experience. I've seen studies done that show that people in the more "modernized" countries in the world tend to touch each other a lot less than in the less developed nations. People in the US are particularly stuck in their bubbles. We don't even like to stand close to people when we talk to them. Without touching each other I think we miss out a lot on having real meaningful connections with people. Communication is so much more than the words we say; I find myself wishing a lot of the time that I could put my hand on someone's arm or shoulder when I'm talking to them because it really helps me focus in on them and connect... it rarely if ever happens because people here are just not comfortable with it.
So, to answer your question: Yes, enjoy touching each other, it is absolutely natural, good, and healthy. It is good for the soul.
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