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A quote (or a horribly butchered paraphrase of a quote) from one Mr. Bill Cosby!
"You have to either marry that girl, right now, or leave forever."
Yea...thats the jist of it, but not the exact words. But he's mostly right.
In a situation like this you CAN NOT be happy until you find someone else, and while you're still around her you probably can't do that. So take her away from the equation by ceasing to hang out with her, avoiding her, stop talking to her, blowing her off, and letting her go (ala a suggestion by SAM821) and after the initial bumpy road of emotional crap (which lasts far too long...) you're much better than when you started.
Of course I'm told there's a grey area, but this soon its impossible, except for a masochist.
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