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I had something kinda like that happen to me. I think a lot of times we do this because we're afraid of being accountable to ourselves for a real situation. Nothing is safer than loving someone you can't have, you can't screw it up because of the distance. I'd suggest that you take a break of sorts at some point, and go meet some girls. You don't have to go find "the one" right away or anything like that, but remind yourself that there are others out there. I think this is the modern day version of courtly love, and I know how it feels personally. There's a real desperate immediacy to everything... that strong longing desire. And the weird thing is that you either created all of this for yourself, or this girl that you like so much is really just addicted to your attention. Don't be afraid to find something real...
Getting away from my situation I had like this was one of the best things I have ever done for myself.
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