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thats a tough one... i have been in a similar situation, with one of my best friends (though i wasnt that extreme as you were), but i was sexually attracted to her, difference is that we did hook up a few times, and the problem was that whenever we wanted to date each other, one of us was ALWAYS taken, and well, it just was better to stay close friends...
to make a long story short she left to college and i never saw her that much anymore, now she is moving to NY, and i dont really talk to her that often anymore...
SOOO... my point is that you need to stop hanging out with her... avoid her, stop talking to her, blow her off, LET HER GO... and two things could come of this..
1. she could realize your value and see that her life isnt the same without you, and you guys can live happily ever after...
2. you get over her, and you realize that its not meant to be, and in the process you can get over your obsession with her (no offense)...
I really hope it works out though... good luck
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