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Originally posted by TM875
Okay, Plan9, here's a question:
I've been reading this diligently, and I really like some of your ideas. However, here's my situation:
Usually, when approaching girls (or anyone, for that matter), it seems that I come into the situation with TOO MUCH confidence. It's like I act overly aggressive and try to take my place - which just leads them to believe that I'm an overbearing asshole. Oftentimes I've had girls reject me, or even outright hate me, for being "too intense".
The question here is, first, what am I doing wrong? Am I truly imtimidating them? Also, how can I remedy this (is my outward over-convidence stemming from an inward lack of convidence?)? Your advice would be greatly appreciated.
And, once again, thanks for making this thread. 
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Well there is a fine line between being an Alpha male and being a jocko obnoxious guy. You are aggressive, and believe me you are ahead of the game. It is harder to learn to be aggressive than to learn to relax a little, so don't worry you are close to your goal. You need to work on your game by concentrating on being a little more mysterious. Keep em wondering if you are into them. Dont make it obvious. Girls don't like what they know they can have easily, they are different then us. Keep reminding yourself this while talking to them in order to keep yourself in check and always ahead of the game.