Okay, Plan9, here's a question:
I've been reading this diligently, and I really like some of your ideas. However, here's my situation:
Usually, when approaching girls (or anyone, for that matter), it seems that I come into the situation with TOO MUCH confidence. It's like I act overly aggressive and try to take my place - which just leads them to believe that I'm an overbearing asshole. Oftentimes I've had girls reject me, or even outright hate me, for being "too intense".
The question here is, first, what am I doing wrong? Am I truly imtimidating them? Also, how can I remedy this (is my outward over-convidence stemming from an inward lack of convidence?)? Your advice would be greatly appreciated.
And, once again, thanks for making this thread.
