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As a girl, I would say that you should find something about her that is not perfect, something that bothers you, even the slightest bit, to humanize her. We tend to romanticize the things we want. Then, you need to stop thinking about her. Occupy your mind. Do things without her. Make other friends. Stop comparing other girls to her, because obviously, they never will be her. This drove a friend of mine into a deep funk and he lost an entire year of his life. Don't ignore other girls. You don't have sleep with them, or even date them. But you should realize that if they are hitting on you, there has got to be something wonderful about you that someone else doesn't see.
If all else fails, take a trip with the new friends you're going to make. Realize that you can have fun without her. And please realize that you are worth more than what she thinks.
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- Smashing Pumpkins
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