When I was a kid (junior high, high school) my parents would offer me $100 if I got all A's in all my classes each semester. This being a pretty tough goal to achieve for myself, I figured the reward matched the challenge and I tried hard to achieve this goal. Eventually I did and It wasn't even about the money (which was a nice bonus), but about reaching my parents standard that I was trying to do.
Of course it's different for all kids, but I think parents should do whatever is necessary for them to help their kids, even if a reward for good grades is in order. Just keep the bar high, that way they have to work harder in order to reach it.
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