Since I wasn't very elaborate with my answer, I actually agree with Litespeed as well. But the key is to start those friendships with a certain "tone" of possibly leading to something more. I have befriended all of my past girlfriends before I dated them because I'm not comfortable dating someone who I don't know at all, but as I was building the friendship I made sure that it was understood that I was attracted to them through liberal flirting, etc.
I have no idea how to actually describe it, but it's true. *shrug*
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