*sigh*....holy shit....
It's been said several times, but i'll say it again my own way.
You are in charge of your life.
You are not in charge of your parents' happiness.
You WILL have to deal with the consequences of living your life over making your parents happy, but it is something you MUST do.
You cannot live the life your parents want you to live. That is not living.
You will have love, and compassion, and follow your heart, and maybe have an upset family, or you will have a happy family and no love.
So many people never find that true love. Don't turn your back on it.
Best of luck...
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