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I dont see how love can be a sin. Religion tends to lean toward love as the opposite of sin.
You should let them know how you feel about this girl. If you do really love her, as you say, they should understand this. Its not like you're dating 5 girls a month and fucking anything that spreads it's legs. You are commited to this girl and truely care about her.
Ask them if they would prefer you in a loveless marriage, or one born out of love. Ask if they want grandchildren that are the result of simple procreation or grandchildren that are born out of love. If they dont understand this then there may be little hope.
You're trying your best to do what is right, but you have to live your own life. It is YOUR LIFE. It is not your mother's life. It is not your father's life. It is not your sister's life. It is your life. Live and love and as you wish.
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