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uptown · 12-23-2003, 03:20 AM

I disagree that porn is the same as actual cheating.Infidelity involves an actual live person,in real time 3D.You aren't going to catch any STD's or have your marriage destroyed by occasional porn viewing...you might though if the fantasy involves that cute chic he met at work.

My point is this,after an evening spent watching tv with a guy and viewing various half dressed celebrities(with him commenting on this one or that one thru out the evening) with little to no attention being paid to you whatsoever,you two go to bed and he turns off the lights,perfuctorily paws one of your breasts,makes a grab for your pussy,mounts you and thrusts away,no caressing,no sweet words,no making sure you're turned on.Add in the occasionally "honest,helpful" critisism he makes about your body and the fact that the women he admires aloud don't ever even remotely resemble anything like what you look like, what then is a woman to think?

You come home from work and he's real happy to see you,all raring to go,erection in full force,minimal to no interaction from
you,was he thinking of making love to you all afternoon or was he viewing images on his computer monitor and decided to do you a favor by screwing you instead of masterbating?Are you a desired,wanted lover or just a somewhat disappointing but convient substitute?

12-23-2003, 03:20 AM	#38 (permalink)
uptown Insane	I disagree that porn is the same as actual cheating.Infidelity involves an actual live person,in real time 3D.You aren't going to catch any STD's or have your marriage destroyed by occasional porn viewing...you might though if the fantasy involves that cute chic he met at work. My point is this,after an evening spent watching tv with a guy and viewing various half dressed celebrities(with him commenting on this one or that one thru out the evening) with little to no attention being paid to you whatsoever,you two go to bed and he turns off the lights,perfuctorily paws one of your breasts,makes a grab for your pussy,mounts you and thrusts away,no caressing,no sweet words,no making sure you're turned on.Add in the occasionally "honest,helpful" critisism he makes about your body and the fact that the women he admires aloud don't ever even remotely resemble anything like what you look like, what then is a woman to think? You come home from work and he's real happy to see you,all raring to go,erection in full force,minimal to no interaction from you,was he thinking of making love to you all afternoon or was he viewing images on his computer monitor and decided to do you a favor by screwing you instead of masterbating?Are you a desired,wanted lover or just a somewhat disappointing but convient substitute? Last edited by uptown; 12-23-2003 at 03:22 AM..