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Frankly, looking at porn and not openly with your SO, is no different than sleeping with another person as far as I'm concerned.
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Exactly. I agree 200%
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I am not freaked out by porn, anti-porn, a prude or otherwise, I just think that I should be the one turning on my SO, not some slut on a computer screen when I'm not around. And then when I AM around, he's not interested at all? That doesn't seem like anything too absurd, does it?
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I'm with you here on this one, too. You've told him that you'd be more comfortable with it if he shared it with you or talked to you about it? And he STILL won't do it? If it really truly seems like more than just an enjoyment of porn, look for the signs of addiction (I'm being relatively serious here, there is such thing as sexual addiction). Go from there. It may turn out that it's something he's secretly struggling with, and refuses to admit it or is afraid to admit it. I know that it's a long shot, but.... :shrug: ya never know....
We're with ya, hon! Feel free to PM me if you ever wanna chat... (((((())))))