I have been in relationships where I thought I was in love. After leaving them or being left I realized there were other issues involved with my attachment so sometimes I wonder if I really felt love. My first boyfriend abused my affection for him and it turned into dependency in a way. My second boyfriend was short-term and a bit unemotional. My third boyfriend became my husband. We've gone through out ups and downs and hurt each other and been hurt together by circumstances. I don't know if I can say I've had a broken heart but relationships haven't been easy.
From what I've seen of relationships (either my own or of those close to me) everyone hurts each other sometimes. Hardship is what makes us strong whether it be a heartbreak or other kind of hardship.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
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