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lurkette and I use "tuesday" and "thursday" to say "easy there" and "stop". Those are borrowed from the couple friends we've been journaling about. Though like i8one2 says--and even though I don't have anything LIKE the dom experience he has--I've gotten to where I can usually tell it's time.
lurkette likes to be dominated right up to the edge of actual fear, the very edge of tears, and then cuddled and held and made okay. All I have to do is pay attention, and I know when that moment happens.
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