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Old 12-21-2003, 09:36 PM   #35 (permalink)
Mehoni
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Re: Insecurities toward your SO's porn habits?

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Originally posted by lafemmefatale
http://www.thestranger.com/2003-09-25/savage.html
That link was just a heap of shit.

As you might have guessed by that line, I don't look at porn and I don't like my boyfriend looking at porn either.

Spewing bullshit-lines that "men likes to look" is like saying "all women love babies". Simply not true.

But then again, I'm lucky here. My boyfriend does not look at porn. He knows how I feel about it. But he's not making a "sacrifice" either.. he's simply not that kind of person.


Things that made me see red: (bolded)

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First, a little insensitivity: You would have to be an idiot to marry this insecure, inconsiderate bag of slop. She throws your stuff away? You can't look at a pretty woman on the street? That's the sort of crap you squelch before you marry someone, PC, unless you're really looking forward to that first divorce. If you love her and want to marry her, do her the favor of leveling with her: Of course you're not satisfied with just one sex partner--no man ever is! Men aren't wired for monogamy.
You see, he's trying to tell us that we're not good enough to marry if we have insecurities and that ALL men wants the same thing.. more than one body to fuck and that we should be lucky they're not all screwing around and cheating on us. (Oh, and btw.. your SO is not satisfied with you either.. I mean, you're only one person...)

I clearly live in a different universe, because where I come from, most people are different in the way they think, act, feel etc...
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