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first off i a pot head cant be determined with the number of times you smoke.

now me and my women who have been together for the last 1.5 yrs and have been living with eachother for about a month now are pretty much in the same situation as yourself. i for one am a pot head and she has never smoked pot.

is your problem that she is high around you? is it the atmosphere because of the friends? or is it just the fact she smokes pot?

my women knew from day one i was a pothead and hated it. it was pretty much i was gonna smoke and that was all there was to it...and she didnt want to be around anyone that smoked pot and that was all there was to it. so we were about to end our relationship...but we both wanted to be with one another. sounds kinda like your situation. we had discussed why i wanted to smoke and why she didnt want to be around that world. this went on for months until we truely understood both sides point of view...so now the only time im high is when we are apart. this meant i cut down drastically how much i smoke. and this also meant she is fine if i wanna go get high as long as its not cutting into "our time".

i think you need to get to the root of this issue. if she is just evolving as a person she may not give up pot for a long time. if you two want to keep your relationship i think you need to accept the fact she smokes...and she needs to accept the fact you dont like pot. if you are going to be together you both need to come to the table with a pot free attitude...when you are together dont have in your mind the fact she smokes pot...and she cant have in her mind you are against her smoking pot. i think you both need a pot free environment when you two are together. then when you arent you can do whatever you want.

are you two just growing apart as people?

ps. you mentioned you smoked twice and know what its like...well its different for all people so you might not be experiencing what she is...plus you all ready have this hang up on pot which probably didnt help.