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analog · 12-20-2003, 11:48 PM

I think there is a line where being "sensitive to someone's feelings" crosses over the line of reasonable, where it's actually (OBVIOUSLY) interfering with your own happiness. What the fuck do you owe her?

YOU have to bend over (no pun) to accomodate her being a prude, and she does nothing to accept YOUR feelings on the issue?

BULLSHIT.

Communication, agreement, and accomodation work both ways. If she wants to not have to see you having sex, then she has to accept the fact that you deserve some private time because YOU RESPECT HER WISHES. I HATE selfish people like that, and PRUDES have the highest selfish factor of anyone I've ever met.

She's being selfish. 1. Tell her you need private time, and that you need to work something out.

2. Find another roommate, or another room. Now. It's only going to get worse once you confront her.

12-20-2003, 11:48 PM	#9 (permalink)
analog Banned	I think there is a line where being "sensitive to someone's feelings" crosses over the line of reasonable, where it's actually (OBVIOUSLY) interfering with your own happiness. What the fuck do you owe her? YOU have to bend over (no pun) to accomodate her being a prude, and she does nothing to accept YOUR feelings on the issue? BULLSHIT. Communication, agreement, and accomodation work both ways. If she wants to not have to see you having sex, then she has to accept the fact that you deserve some private time because YOU RESPECT HER WISHES. I HATE selfish people like that, and PRUDES have the highest selfish factor of anyone I've ever met. She's being selfish. 1. Tell her you need private time, and that you need to work something out. 2. Find another roommate, or another room. Now. It's only going to get worse once you confront her. Last edited by analog; 12-20-2003 at 11:50 PM..