this year i'm getting my SO as nice pen case (to hold the pen i bought her for her birthday), a magnetic poetry kit, a nice photo frame with a photo of us in it and a nice leather journal (she loves writing).
oh, and a rubber duckie vibrator! ehehe
rubber duckie, you're so fine
and i hope, that you'll be mine!
get her something she will USE and not sit and gather dust. i dunno, i'm not a huge fan of giving ornamental presents (apart from the photo frame).