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i didn't mean anything else, really. you could rephrase the question as: is it a special thing that you actually want to do things that you wouldn't otherwise (all the background above considered)? is the want to explore a "new territory" something that can be induced? how do you deal with a situation where the idea of what you would like to do doesn't go along with your partner's idea of where they want to go?
the simple answer, of course, is to get over it and appreciate whatever you got, after all you love them. but then you cannot always get over the sense of deprivation. again, you could say easily, just communicate, make sure you are understood, etc. but what happens if you actually come to a point where you know it's not gonna happen and you know that, however irrelevant, it is going to be something you'll perceive as lacking?
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