Love's a funny thing like that... Love at first sight is often lust, but then, like the poet said, I loved you 'ere I knew your face or name... Often we have a pretty good idea what we WANT to love, whether consciously or not. It's nice when that shows up! I've long stated that love is a selfish and rational thing, and that all works together with the idea of falling quickly. If you've identified your values and goals, falling in love can be VERY fast. As for being with someone else.. That all depends on the relationship with "the one you love". If there's no commitment, either explicit of implied, then there is no reason for expectations either.
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Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies
like a banana.
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