I am a huge fan of eye contact! but not of staring. First and foremost, eye contact is a good thing, but in some cases there are people that think you can only be in conversation while looking at them. Children are a very large part of this group, they demand to be looked at while they are speaking or else they think you don't hear them. I think that this idea is carried over into adulthood but is fully utilized by taking notice of the expressions in their eyes.
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