I'm not a cheater. If I'm in a relationship, it's because there's something there that I feel is worth nurturing - cheating destroys that, whether your partner knows of the indiscretion or not.
I have, however, found out that I was the other man. I had met an interesting lady one night when I was out with my friends, we hit it off, talked on the phone quite a bit, and then hooked up. After a great afternoon of "getting to know each other better", I didn't hear from her for a while.
Eventually, we got back in touch, and it was then that I learned that she's married, with a couple of kids, and was just looking for something to "blow off some steam"....
Oh well, live and learn, right?
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