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Thing jealous people need to realize is your SO doesn't belong to you, i.e. is not your property. This isn't meant to be an attack, I'm just saying jealously can seem flattering as they value you and fear losing you but really it's a big pain in the ass. My ex-gf was horribly jealous and it's one of the things I didn't like about her. I know I could not have had a female friend at all without major drama.
I think it's good to interact with the opposite sex in a platonic situation; it allows you to see contrasts in others and can make you appreciate your SO even more for the dynamic and unique person they are. It can enrich a relationship to do things with the OS by contrast and comparison. If they end up falling for another person and leave you to be with them, it's because they would be more happy with the person and you're doing both of you a disservice to continue.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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