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analog · 12-16-2003, 02:46 AM

Dinner/dancing is no big deal, as long as she's not eating off of them and the dancing is kept vertical, if you know what I mean.

I've gone out to dinner with platonic female friends on many occasions, several of them having boyfriends I know and respect. They don't care, because they know me, and those that don't know me can get over it. I've also been dancing COUNTLESS times with almost every female friend I have, as I like to go clubbing, and dancing doesn't mean anything. She says dancing, YOU think of the kind of dance YOU would dance... all groping her and grabbing her ass and stuff, you sly dog- but she says dancing and MEANS dancing, perth. If you really believe in your heart she wouldn't cheat, then she isn't.

I had a guy yell at me one time because I had gone to dinner with "his girlfriend" who he'd been with for 3 weeks, when she was MY FRIEND for over a year. I told him that we were friends, and had been for quite some time, and if he had a problem, I wasn't the one to bring it up to. She dumped him a day later when he confronted her for being an unreasonable prick.

No, you're not being unreasonable, you're being cautious, nervous, lovesick, and jealous that someone else is getting her time instead of you. If you believe her fidelity, then you're only upset because YOU can't take her to dinner, and YOU can't go dancing with her. If you have no reason to suspect anything bad, then rest your weary head, my son, and bask in the happiness that is your true romance. I hope you two can get it together, i'd hate to see a thread down the line about how you two broke up when you seem to have so much love, even half a world away.

12-16-2003, 02:46 AM	#3 (permalink)
analog Banned	Dinner/dancing is no big deal, as long as she's not eating off of them and the dancing is kept vertical, if you know what I mean. I've gone out to dinner with platonic female friends on many occasions, several of them having boyfriends I know and respect. They don't care, because they know me, and those that don't know me can get over it. I've also been dancing COUNTLESS times with almost every female friend I have, as I like to go clubbing, and dancing doesn't mean anything. She says dancing, YOU think of the kind of dance YOU would dance... all groping her and grabbing her ass and stuff, you sly dog- but she says dancing and MEANS dancing, perth. If you really believe in your heart she wouldn't cheat, then she isn't. I had a guy yell at me one time because I had gone to dinner with "his girlfriend" who he'd been with for 3 weeks, when she was MY FRIEND for over a year. I told him that we were friends, and had been for quite some time, and if he had a problem, I wasn't the one to bring it up to. She dumped him a day later when he confronted her for being an unreasonable prick. No, you're not being unreasonable, you're being cautious, nervous, lovesick, and jealous that someone else is getting her time instead of you. If you believe her fidelity, then you're only upset because YOU can't take her to dinner, and YOU can't go dancing with her. If you have no reason to suspect anything bad, then rest your weary head, my son, and bask in the happiness that is your true romance. I hope you two can get it together, i'd hate to see a thread down the line about how you two broke up when you seem to have so much love, even half a world away. Last edited by analog; 12-16-2003 at 02:49 AM..